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The pope's death, and the Christian response

Today, April 21, 2025, at 7:35 a.m., Jorge Mario Bergoglio (known to the world as Pope Francis) breathed his last. And in that moment, the man who claimed to be the "Vicar of Christ" stood before the true Christ, not robed in white, but stripped of title, mitre, and human honour. Death is no respecter of popes. It rips through all ecclesiastical garments and leaves only what is eternal. And for a man who represented one of the most powerful religious systems on earth—a system that dares to call itself the Church—his death is not merely an earthly event. It is a cosmic reminder: God is not mocked (Galatians 6:7). Rome will canonize him. The world will remember his diplomacy, his interfaith outreach, his social reforms. He welcomed idolaters and atheists, blessed what God has cursed, and exalted human traditions above the Word of God. But Heaven does not weigh men by sentiment. It weighs them by truth. And the gospel Rome preaches is another gospel (Galatians 1:6–9)—a Christ + ...

FAQ on Repentance, Obedience and Faith

Questions asked about Repentance & Obedience in regards to saving Faith.  2 Timothy 2:25-26  "Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will." Act 17:30 -31 30 "And the times of this ignorance God overlooked; but now commands all men every where to repent: Because he has appointed a day, in the which he will judge the world in righteousness by that man whom he has ordained; whereof he has given assurance unto all men, in that he haa raised him from the dead" 2Co 7:10 "For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death." Jesus said, "unless you repent you will perish". Luke 13:3 Jesus said in Mark 1:15 "Repent and Believe the Gospel [of Christ]." Also everyone in the OT got ...

Don't know much about the Bible, want to be in church & raise kids to know God

Q: This is embarrassing to admit , but I need advice! I don’t know where to start when it comes to getting closer to God. I didn’t really grow up in a religious household. I only attended church once and that we with a friend I was spending the night at her house in 4th grade and went to church with her. I barely remember it all I remember is playing with kids that’s it. We weren’t taught anything from my parents , it was just oh we believe in God but that’s it.  I grew up in a very angry household. We were told to believe in God but the household itself was so angry. Yelling, cussing, called a bible thumper or Jesus freak when I’d ask to go to church as a teenager.  Im an adult now and it’s been tugging on my heart for years to get closer with God and teach my kids about him too so they’re not clueless like me when they’re grown. I’m married , 26 years old , and have 4 kids ages 3-10 and I feel like it’s too late already to start 😫 I feel so bad thinking about the fact that ...

Haven't been to church for years, nervous but desire joining a woman's study there.

Q: I did it, I went to church today for the first time in about 6 years and I really liked the church I went to. A few people introduced themselves to me and they all seemed like nice people.  The church is having a women's Bible study on Tuesday night and I really want to go this upcoming Tuesday but I'm soooooo nervous about going. Is it even appropriate for me to go since I've only been to church one Sunday? My fear is that I'll be the odd one out, that all the women there already know each other and are friends and that nobody will talk to me or like me. I feel like I don't know much about the Bible even though I was raised Christian. I'm worried that the other women there will think I'm stupid. I know it's probably all in my head but I'm so torn about whether I should go or not. I've never done a Bible study before, and I have no clue what to expect. Should I go😬? Should I attend for a few months and then go🤔? Any advice would be very much...

PK has Doubts, Qs on freewill, OT, & suffering

Q: I grew up in a Christian home, daughter of a pastor, and yet I find myself having doubts, why does God allow bad things to happen to Children? And yes I know the first answer will be “free will” then why does it say that he hardened pharaohs heart? - Exodus 4:21: "Then the LORD said to Moses, “When you return to Egypt, see that you perform before Pharaoh all the wonders that I have given you the power to do. But I will harden Pharaoh's heart, and he will not let the people go.” Surely that goes against free will, or why did he send an angel to kill the first borns, - Exodus 12:29: “At midnight the LORD struck down all the firstborn in Egypt, from the firstborn of Pharaoh, who sat on the throne, to the firstborn of the prisoner, who was in the dungeon, and the firstborn of all the livestock as well.” and why is there so much death and violence in the Old Testament:  Ezekiel 9:5-7, “As I listened, he said to the others, “Follow him through the city and kill, without showing p...

Faith & doubt struggles, need peace

Q: I am angry. Beyond angry. I want to just be done and walk away. Ever since I was a young child I struggled and dealt with doubts and fear. Doubting my faith and questioning if I truly believe in Jesus or not. I WANT faith. I WANT to believe without these doubts. But how do I know if my heart truly believes or not? How do I know this is all real? How do i know the Bible is the truth? How do we know it was really written over a period of time? I’ve BEGGED God to give me faith. I’ve been praying and reading, seeking DAILY. Crying my heart out to God to show me He is real and He is there. Yet nothing changes. Like He doesn’t even hear me. Why was I even born! I’m so scared not to believe in God because I’m scared of going to hell. But I want to WANT a real relationship with Him. I don’t want to just be scared. But how do I fix all of this when I don’t control my feelings and thoughts? I don’t want to feel these things, but they’re there regardless. Why won’t He just answer me!! A: You ...

Helps for cleaning the Home

Here's some general helps. We can’t do everything well all the time. Some days some parts will great and some parts will be not so great and visa versa. Organization and scheduling are very helpful with time management and prioritizing. Example: Bins for toys keep the clutter down and make for quick clean up.  Lots of info on the internet with examples of what to do when.  Example Schedule: Monday: Clean the kitchen and entry. Tuesday: Clean living room and dining room. Wednesday: Clean bathrooms. Thursday: Clean hallway and bedrooms. Friday: Deep clean the house.  Remember to adapt this schedule to your family's needs and preferences. The key is to find a system that works for you and allows you to maintain a clean home while balancing the demands of kids and daily life.  Also try quick tips- for quick clean ups in between:  Designate a few minutes each evening to tidy up living areas, clean dishes, and do laundry.  Kids' Help: Assign age-appropriate chor...

Seeking Content creation path

Q: I would greatly appreciate both prayers and advice. For context, I am a happy married mother of two small children and a very active member of my church. I'm trying to get a YouTube channel off the ground and be somewhat of a content creator. My issue the most is time. I want to be present with my children and be engaged with them all day long (I'm a SAHM). But I have a home to maintain and right now, I cannot keep up with my housework. All day every day I'm stressing about my house and my kids. I see all the clutter in my home and it makes me want to scream. How do you do it? How do you maintain a healthy relationship with God, your husband and children, keep a tidy and clean home, pursue personal goals and aspirations, be an active member of church participating in various ministries, and trying to maintain sanity? I'm struggling. Either I clean my house all day long and not do anything with my kids or hobbies or I don't clean and my house looks embarrassing. W...

Spouse comes to church but tells our kids it's all lies, help...

Q: Went to church this morning with my 5 youngins and my husband. My kids are just thrilled & they want to go back every Sunday. They actually go to a daycare center in this church and love it more than anything! So I decided it was time to try service... and what better day than Easter 🥰. I super enjoyed the service and related several times during service. My husband's never been the church kinda guy, throughout the service kept making comments whispering about how it's all fake etc. Then, gathered the kids to head home but🙁 the entire car ride home telling me how I shouldn't believe the pastors words and he was lying and wrong.  He says I'll go with you on Sundays I do believe there's a higher power but I do not agree with what any of them are saying. This has my heart breaking to be honest because I want to change, I want to grow, I want to be more religious, and involve my kids into the church life and everything. I'm not really looking for anything j...

Hell concern over a suicide

A loved one has died by committing suicide. I have questions in general and as I grieve: If a Christian were to commit suicide, would they be damned for hell? Despite the person they were beforehand. Despite the love. The relationship with God. The good deeds. The faith, everything. Would it all wash down the drain the moment they commit suicide, and would they go to hell? A: This has similarly been answered here and has resources there for your consideration, as well as grief resources there may also help you at this time.  Also, here's resources that can help others you may know [depressed, anxiety, suicidal] to guide unbelievers to God, and help believers hold on to God during times of suffering in this fallen world. It is good to go through those and understand the problem from Eden till now, and on suffering so you can understand this well, to do not fall into despair yourself. It further can help you when sharing about Christianity and the Gospel with those struggling in ...

How should Christians think about Harry Potter

Harry Potter? Q: I have a question about Harry Potter. I grew up Christian and go to a non denominational church. I have read and prayed, but five years ago I stopped seeking God and started watching Harry Potter and reading all the books but my mom always told me it was bad and gave me a book which says that Harry Potter is demonic so I never watched it again and I threw away the books and stuff but that was my comfort movies and i saw a channfl has it and I felt nostalgic seeing the trailer of the first movie on it and I’ve also heard it’s not that bad so now I’m conflicted. What do yall think about it? A: There should be nothing nostalgic about sin and Satan. We killed and got rid of those satanic things of our flrmer life, when we came to Christ, if indeed you have. And it should have no sway or temptation for you.  We are to throw away anything demonic. HP is witchcraft. We dont follow the things of this world, the satanic entertainment and lies it teaches. Understanding Harr...

Asian culture and statues?

Q: Is it wrong for me to have a Buddha statue in my home? I truly feel that I don’t idolize him I just always have liked the looks of chinese culture and been intrigued with the chakras and all of that since i was in high school. I collected this awesome vintage Buddha broken egg and a Fuu Dog (one of those dog statues you might see at a Chinese restaurant with change all over it) I’ve had these things for years and I’m sad to part with them but if it’s wrong I need to.. I just am feeling unsure on what is right and wrong, looking for any insight.. thank you A: Yes. It is an idol. Christians are not to have such things! You cannot be a light for Christ in your home and when others visit if you have such a thing there. It sends [preaches] a false gospel and gives a conflicting message to those who visit your home, including children (and other folks you want to lead to Christ). Our lives are to be holy and not give a hint towards evil. This makes it appear that you add Jesus to other f...

Can Ai be used for personal Bible study

Ai can be "cautiously" used by a believer during home study, in connection with a solid study Bible and church shepherding. This will discuss points to keep in mind, and give advice, as well as examples from Ai.  Topic: Eve and things Christian women can learn and be aware of while pursuing holy living, and maintaining a right relationship with God, and the men they submit to (at home and church). When we do not use very detailed prompts  with Ai...we Christians don't get all we need and should get in response to study a topic. Not knowing what to ask, causes Ai to fall very short of what we need. It is why true discipleship is first mostly to be done at church.  Here's a sample Ai query  Ai, on topic of women, Q: What is one of the first places in Scripture that speaks to a believer in holy living? Is it in Eden for reminding women their role as a helpmeet and not to be a usurper over man and husband?  A: One of the first places in Scripture that speaks to the...

Study Bibles and women's study

Q: I like the Woman’s Study Bible because it gives teachings more specific to women. It seems to gives a good summary, but in different chapters, they highlight different focus points which has me conflicted because I don’t want to miss out on the important points in Scripture. A woman's study is fine but I want to study Scripture well too. But, how do I determine which type of Bible is best to start reading?  A: You could ask your Sunday school teacher at church, you can ask what version they teach with, or see what version your Pastor uses from the pulpit. For personal reading, Focus on the Bible "version" itself, and only choose one reputable, not whatever a publisher is trying to sell. Many today are wishy washy ones to avoid. Not the bells and whistles added to lure you to buy it. I've wished forever that these various study bibles proliferating bookshelves would just publish the contents as a break out solo book for studying with Scripture. That way most can be ...

Afraid to date after hearing so many horror stories from marriages

Q: I regularly see in Christian forums online how scary it is to marry because a lot of women are being cheated on or abused and I completely agree it is wrong. For the past few months, I’ve read about women getting cheated on and it has discouraged me. I now want to avoid men because I don’t want to lose all my hope in marriage some day. But, there is someone that I believe God is showing me that he’s my future husband. I am so afraid of getting cheated on🥲. What are Christian women to do and consider? A: Today it is harder than even in the 80s, as the country has spiraled into gross immorality. However a new report out shows Gen Z is seeking God and there's a surge [finally!] on men coming to the Faith. So the amount of truly saved men is increasing. And there's hope you can find one growing in holiness, pursuing purity, and preparing to be the leader of the home for when he marries.  These resources can help you as you follow God's command to only pursue godly men.  Be ...

Mixed Clothes & Woman and pants

Q: I am extremely confused by what unsaved people are saying, in reference to the classic “Why do Christian’s still wear mixed clothing and woman wear pants?”  A: The Laws of Israel were for that Nation. Think about it, what other nation do you know of that poof started in one day & had it all laid out by God for them? Do not all nations have many laws governing it? The basis of their nation was build on God's holiness , reflected in the 10 commandments, for the communicable attributes that man, made in His image, posessed until the Fall, AND to keep them from idolatry, and to point the world to Christ.  For believers today, we have Christ's righteousness, our righteous nature is restored so we, having spiritual life, we now can choose to obey God. Yet we are stuck in these sin stained bodies until we get the sin free one in eternity. But no we do not follow legalistic rules, laws and outward ways [as all the unsaved world does]. We have been transformed by God from within...