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Concerned family isnt saved

Q: It’s really hard for me to try hard to read my Bible and learn about God and Jesus...when I don’t think anyone in my family is going to heaven. It feels wrong for me to go without them, and it breaks my heart to think about being separated from them. Despite their ways, they’re my family and I love them enough to lay my life down for them. A: It is good you have concern for them, but it is sinful/wrong to think what Jesus did for you is "wrong"... no salvation is wrong. If saved, Jesus died for you. So dont think like to throw your salvation away cuz you "think" family wont be saved. You are not God and do not know if theyll be saved before they die. (Don't make assumptions on their salvation based on who they are today).  What do you mean “for” them? It’s not like you’re rescuing them from anything if they’re rejecting God. You can minister with heartfelt intention to faithfully call them to salvation. If you love them you would in a Christlike way purpos...

Unsaved open agnostic husband (but has faq about Jews & other gods)

Q: I married unequally yoked. I was lukewarm at the time just starting to dive deeper back.I know it is my fault.  We have had deep conversations about faith, and he prays with us and goes to church with us. His opinions and views I would say are more agnostic. As he believes the Christian God is just as possible as any other god. He just has a lot of questions and often questions the Jewish and Christianity religion and how they are the same but they don’t both believe Jesus is a Messiah.  I have been praying for him for years now. We are 2 1/2 years into marriage and have been together almost 7 years. We also have two children together. I’m having a hard time with resentment and I know this isn’t right or fair. I’m praying hard about it and God has been showing me my heart but this feeling is so deep and so important to me as my faith is now. How do I work through this ? A: God will bless your efforts and you have to ride out the consequences (what the unequally yoked part b...

Suicide, Euthanasia & Organ harvesting

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Q: How should we respond to this, and ministering to others in her situation?  A: I can give my thoughts based on what I understand from this situation.  [Edit: The below was reported but later this ].   1) We had heard that in 2022, Noelia, a young vulnerable teenager, was placed in a Spain- state-run home for at-risk youth (basically CPS), where evil was perpetrated on her. She was taken from her loving home while her mom & grandma pleaded CPS not to take her (as seen in emotional video in the home).  Her troubles started when she was 13, and her parents got divorced.  The government decided that she was experiencing 'family instability' and neglect so they put her in a home.  * I hope they dont do that to every kid from divorced homes! 2) The young woman was said to have experienced sexual abuse/assaults (one involving an ex-boyfriend and another incident). As of the latest reports (around March 26, 2026), her ex had not been convicted, a...

Men struggling with trustworthy relationships and a nation of declining morals

Q: So many men today are single with no interest in dating or friendships. Everyones fake and guys are realizing it isnt worth it anymore. No one has your back, no one can be trusted, people use you, backstabbing etc. American isnt how it used to be. There's lack of morals, virtue and character.  I've firsthand experienced this and in talking with other men who shared stories that have led them to the same conclusion. They retreat from (those in) the world. [* via video  topic].  A: I hear you. I know those whom this is meant to reach will recieve it... I hope you hear me out. Hope isnt lost.  It is true that it has always been the way of this world, not so much USA (until recent times) and that's why youre lamenting and disappointed in our society, those given platforms, in leadership and govt positions that push us on a downward trajectory. Somewhere in there was the spark of feminism (we are in the 5th wave if it now), which lead to promiscuity in 60s, and at some...

Should I marry a cheap minded man

Q: My fiancé makes $250k a year, but he is the cheapest person I've ever met. For my engagement ring, he bought a "placeholder" silver band for $20 and said we'd buy a real one "later." Now that we're planning the wedding, he wants the reception to be at a public park with "potluck" food because he thinks spending money on a wedding is a "scam."' I've worked hard for my own money and I want a nice day, but he says he'll only contribute if we do it his way. He even suggested I wear a used dress from a thrift store to "save the environment." Am I shallow for wanting a "real" wedding, or is his extreme frugality a sign that I'll be miserable "forever"? A: Today, esp in cities, 250k isnt always what it seems. Especially in today's economy. He likely has a mortgage, home maint costs, higher end car pmt & ins, and other expenses that take up most of that. If you grew up poor you might th...

The most beautiful place on earth

What is the most beautiful place on Earth?  It is the church. Specifically Sunday morning in the church, & being gathered there with God's people. What is going on on Sunday morning when believers gather together across the globe... What is the Church doing when we gather together? And, what are we are proclaiming to the world? The church is the most beautiful place in the world.  Starting in Genesis, let's take a look at redemptive history, where see yet another theme in the Bible.We never want to elevate a theme above the theme of Jesus and God: redemptive plan for you and for me for his glory. Nevertheless, we can see the elegance of scripture as we study some of the obvious themes in the Bible.  This theme is God's dwelling place. Where does God dwell? In the beginning of Genesis, he created the heavens and the earth. And he dwelt with Adam and Eve. They walked through the garden. They talked to one another. God, reigned from the Heavens & the earth was his fo...

What are the best dating apps to find a spouse?

What are the best dating apps to find a husband? A: Its best to find through church, godly church members connecting you to people they know who are godly, and pastor and wife/leaders who know godly folk. Theyll be under godly shepherds at their/own church and youre closer to vetting as a equally yoked suitor who is held accountable & understanding their authority, who are pursuing godliness, holiness, who sets boundaries, pursues self control and purity till married.  Apps are a hook up cesspool, avoid. Theyre full of mostly preditors waiting to pounce when you give an inch of wiggle room or can get you in a private place. You'll rarely find a true godly man there.  Dating resources & advice God bless Related Want to date/where to find/online ?