Husband Divorced me *

My heart is really shattered. Since my husband decided to divorce me I'm not OK.
I feel so bitter and my heart is wishing him all the evil things.

I'm so angry, I feel used, I feel abandoned.
I am so sad. I'm struggling. I think I cried a lot during this 14 years. I hoped it would work out. I now struggle to pray.


A: Those saved live Love-minded. And actively love others even when they sin against us or harm us. Just as God loved us while we were sinners; enemies of God. 

“Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭17‬-‭18‬ 

Remember “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭28‬ . 

I encourage you to repent to the Lord. We can be angry but we cannot sin. God will comfort you. 
Read: 
-Psalm 51:10 
-Psalm 34:18
-Ephesians 4:26

God has freed you to go live in peace. Be glad over this blessing. Put all of it in the past and go forward in joy and peace. 

Never date, court or marry any unsaved man again. Vet him very well to ensure he is a real Christian, mature in the faith, worthy to be the spiritual leader... and rejoice and praise God always for this new blessing.


If you need help moving forward get into biblical counseling immediately, and they will help you 🫂🥰.

Here also is info on conquering the sin of bitterness, emotional sins and also forgiving others & living in a right mindset


God bless. 


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