Make out & dont feel guilty
Do not allow yourself to be around the opposite sex alone. Do not engage in any form of friendship or relationship with them. Do not date unsaved men. Dont be alone around them.
If you are around ungodly men theyll take advantage of you and you might embrace it. Whether a virgin or not if you are being enticed by a wolf to do intimate things that lead to or do go fornicate it shows theres a real problem in your walk - if you are claiming to be Christian. You should not put yourself in situations where you can sin or they can encourage it.
Self examination and Action plan:
These are the problems...
1. You are likely not reading the Bible, nor reading it daily. Reading it keeps us close to God. Keeps our minds on God and our life is led by it. And that also keeps us from sin.
2. You are likely not in Church (where you should be), and if you are you are not in Sunday School nor have a active life revolving around the church.
3. You lack proper fear of God. &
You are not growing in Holiness.
If you are not feeling guilty about this, even if you are and still keep doing it... means you are not understanding the holiness of God, which connects to not having a proper fear of him, and shows a total misunderstanding of your Christian life; supposed to be lived in the new righteous nature of a believer that reflects the communicable attributes (reflecting the moral attributes of God.)
So either you need to get a greater grasp on this or examine yourself to see if you are not saved - and get that taken care of.
Either way you need to repent and turn from those sins, immediately.
We do grow in righteousness through sanctification but your putting yourself in situations where the flesh is gratified is sin, is showing you need to grow in the faith, and is showing you are not being a witness for God in how you live your life (which represents Him to everyone). You are being a bad witness, which further slanders God and Christianity by those who know you.
Here is a study on God's Holiness and Attributes. There are also books in there listed at the bottom & for godly living out the righteous life. (Read those).
Do a self examination of your faith to ensure you really are saved.
This has further helps for growing believers. It has a lot that will benefit you so poke around all of it and utilize it. It will bless you.
God bless
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Proverbs 31:30
“Charm is deceitful, beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.”
