Had a miscarriage or still birth
Q: At 20, l miscarried at 10 weeks pregnant. Do l say that l have a child or not?
A: Life begins at conception. Yes you can say you had a child. Many women have miscarriages in this sin stained fallen world.
Perhaps the loss was something God wants to use in your life for gospel conversations.
“I have a child, they just got to meet God before me”....
I lost twins and i say:
I have 2 in Heaven and glad I will be seeing them when I get there. Have you ever thought about what is beyond death? Have you ever wondered why we die? [Wages of sin]. Do you consider yourself to be a good person....
It offers us a springboard about spiritual things to jump into the gospel.
Men too. They lost a child as well.
If you went on to have kids afterwards, and you are in conversations where adults are talking you can say we have a 7 year old a 5 yearvold and two in Heaven we are looking forward to seeing when we die. [And go from there].
Here are some resources to help if you are grieving, want to look into or to share with those grieving.
Safe in His Arms (book)
God Bless.
