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Failed Friendships

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Q: My friend keep on hurting me; the backstabbing, betrayal, hurt and disappointment that I repeatedly get from her. The emotional unavailability, the lack of support as a friend is so poor. During our friendship there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for her, I liked her so much. I think I have anxious attachment because when I reflect to our friendship I think it has always been one sided, it just me who’s falling to let go of her. Advice? A: Here is the best advice I can give you right now. I hope it helps you.  1. We need friends from in our local congregation. Folk in the world will never be ones to befriend since theyre led by Satan.  2. Of those who are in the church, many are false converts. You cant assume theyre Christian just because theyre in a church. The church has fallen since 1989-1999 when it opened the doors of the church to the world. Scripture also is clear in the Parables.  But of those in the church who are saved... theyll mess up too because theyre growing i...

Deconstruction ?

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The entire movement is happening because: 1. The early 90s ushered in a draw for the world to come into the holy church if the redeemed bride. Light and darkness have no place together and this seeker sensitive nonsense should never have happened. 2. Because of the above, the start of churches surveying unsaved people around the church(es) to see what the unsaved would want from the church. Spoiler they are of their father the devil & hate us, they only want us dead. 3. If you invite satan and demons in and you alter the gospel you will only produce more weeds among the wheat; false converts. And when what that false gospel promises doesnt happen, they get bitter and throw faith off. They were idolators anyway and never knew Jesus nor the true God.  4. When the church embraces the demons and the culture in order to refocus away from Christ and the Bride to turn to focus on "numbers and money" [church income] the pastors have not only turned from God, covet, become ido...

Believes in God but ran into difficulties *

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Q: I grew up in Church & looked into Christianity since middle school and have some questions. I'm not saying I'm questioning the existence of God, I'm fully aware and believe that He is real. I mean, how else do you rationally explain creation 🤔 and I've experienced and witnessed miracles so I firmly believe that He is real, but I have questions about things. First of all... He's all knowing, right? If he knew man was going to fall into sin, and he doesn't make mistakes... why does the Bible say He regretted creating man? Why did He create us in the first place? He placed the two trees in the garden, Tree of Everlasting Life and the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, so that man could make a choice. Obey Him or don't. But wouldn't He have known that Adam and Eve wouldn't obey? Second, I know that it was to show the power and miracles that God could do... but if He wanted the Israelites to be freed, why harden Pharaoh's heart even more th...

Equally and Unequally yoked list*

Here are a list of things you need to have a serious understanding and serious grasp on when it comes to dating, courting and marrying.  God has been clear that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. If you ignore this you are in open rebellion against God and need to examine if you are even saved, because those who belong to Christ obey the Word; what God has commanded in Scripture. It is the guide book for the believers life on earth. If you openly disregard it for sinful selfish reasons it will break your fellowship with God, put you in a disciplinary state with Him, and wreck your faith and your life, especially when it comes to the one you pursue for a mate which is to be sought for marriage.  A relationship and a marriage are much more than just finding someone to be with so you arent lonely, and so you have sex and to cuddle with and share a meal with or go to a movie with. If you have a very basic view of a relationship having a false perception like...

Alcoholic Spouse guidance

Alcohol Q: I am gradually losing my amazing husband to alcohol. He is detoriating, turning into some kind of monster infront of my eyes. There's always chaotic fights at home and always revolves around liquor and money. I miss the old him. I miss the old us 💔 I was born into Catholic family but got saved a few years ago. Please tell me this situation will get better 😭. I need guidance. I want things to be better and harmonious at home. I want my husband to be better. How to pray for this? Can prayers change a person's addiction? A: God is in the miracle business, but there's no guarantee he will be saved or restored to the man you knew before. There's no guarantee that he will choose Christ and you vs alcohol and destruction. We are in a fallen world and people tend to gravitate towards escapism vs seeking comfort and relying on/trusting God. I would like to encourage you in these: 1. Pray. Pray from your heart. Pray for him to be saved/changed/restored, and pra...

Celebrating Holidays? 😇

Q: I currently believe it is wrong to celebrate Christian holidays because I was told they are Pagan. Is there anything good about celebrating them, if so, in what way? A: I think it is important to work through this, and not just take other's views on it without actually doing good research on it. I do hope you will put aside emotion, negativity and be open like a Berean to look into this matter rationally and with spiritual understanding. Holidays typically fall in the tertiary realm. If you do not know what that is... There's essential issues (which one must believe to be a biblical Christian), there's secondary beliefs (theyre doctrinal, such as baptism or end times), and tertiary (some overlap with secondary... and these are just not as important).  Disagreeing on Secondary beliefs can prevent us from joining a church that holds secondary views we disagree with, but won't prevent us from calling each other brethren; think John MacArthur & Sproul, or Spurgeon a...

New Job!

New Job Need prayers and words of encouragement for a job I just started. It's hard for me because it's working with the public as I'm introverted. But I really want to succeed. A: CONGRATS!! 🎉🎉 You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Philippians 4:13. We do all work and all we do as unto the Lord: Colossians 3:23-24: Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. "for we walk by faith and not by sight 2 Cor. 5:7 And...if the job doesnt work out, it is not a fail. Take what you learned, thank God for the opportunity, and go where he sends you next. He is growing you for what is in store in your future, to glorify him and help you.  Also keeping in mind every job provides witnessing opportunities, and also persecution today is growing. Be kind yet firm holding to truth, and don't d...

Relationship Issues

Q: My sister who is senior in High school, had been dating this guy for almost a year. They recently broke up because she was fed up with his continous lying. And a few days after their break up she found out he had been cheating on her through out the entire course of their relationship. She is take along time to heal over this... because she says (when dating) God gave her a vision and confirmation that that ex-boyfriend was to be her husband. She is really heart-broken over this. Can you advise? A: The good news is she has a caring sister, and, she realized she should break up with him - and did. Satan has the ability to come and show or whisper things that's not true; He tempts, lures, decieves, destroys, devours, toys with and damages lives. If he was meant to be her husband 1 he would not have continually lied, 2 he wouldn't have been cheating on her, and 3 he wouldnt have lured her into sex; assuming the couple were fornicating together since he is sexually active. ...

Why you need to homeschool

Theres a war The feminist movement of 50s and 70s has come to destroy the family. It is being radically implemented today and you need to get a serious grasp on this. It is time protect your children by keeping them out of public schools, and away from children who go there. The movement to destroy families is sexual at its core and includes lgbt and varied sexual deviency  Homeschooling helps Training up a child at home   ============================= Reminder, do not share this page with anyone who is not conservative protestant. This page is not for progressives nor pro lgbt nor pro feminist people. 

Makeup and cultural questions

Makeup a sin?  I don’t think wearing makeup is wrong. It’s all about who is wearing it and just like other similar issues "why" and "what" culture. It is about intentionality. Are we trying to use makeup to deceive others about our gender?, or possibly used by women to cause others fall into temptation during a night out, or even for our own vanity? If you are a woman and aren’t using it for the purpose of sin or as a result of sin, it is fine. Some folk use it to cover scars or to contour a bit bcuz of insecurity but if you *arent* trying to use makeup to look like a actual celebrity via yt tutorial, or to look like female if you were born male, etc that's fine.  People on tv use excessive or bright makeup to look normal & natural with the scene lighting (even news anchors, but even the men in that situation use it for a reason, [they also arent claiming to be a woman, but are men living as men]. And same with Plays actors like on broadway so audience in b...

Successfully conquering anxiety and depression

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Q: How do we handle anxiety and depression? I need advice how to control it, and Scriptural guidance to overcome it. It is heavy it is not easy & sometimes it comes and goes. *I also don't read the Bible and am not around people much.  Please keep me in your prayers, I need it desperately. A: Will pray for you today. We believers are not alone. God is always with us, and for us. Anxiety and depression are related to not trusting God. We need to rely on Him, trust and believe Him. One main culprit for sin, insecurity, anxiety and depression is not being in the Scriptures daily. If we are not taking IN God's Word, we cant meditate on it, trust Him, rely on Him and hold to His promises to us that He has revealed in it to us. So it doesnt OUTFLOW from our heart and mind giving us assurance, unless we are IN it and relying on Him.  I recommend you start your mornings hearing the Scriptures for 15 to 20 min while you get ready in the morning. And repeat t...