Failed Friendships
Q: My friend keep on hurting me; the backstabbing, betrayal, hurt and disappointment that I repeatedly get from her. The emotional unavailability, the lack of support as a friend is so poor. During our friendship there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for her, I liked her so much. I think I have anxious attachment because when I reflect to our friendship I think it has always been one sided, it just me who’s falling to let go of her. Advice? A: Here is the best advice I can give you right now. I hope it helps you. 1. We need friends from in our local congregation. Folk in the world will never be ones to befriend since theyre led by Satan. 2. Of those who are in the church, many are false converts. You cant assume theyre Christian just because theyre in a church. The church has fallen since 1989-1999 when it opened the doors of the church to the world. Scripture also is clear in the Parables. But of those in the church who are saved... theyll mess up too because theyre growing i...